Everyone has had misadventures, what makes them worthy of memory is the adventure in them without the - mis- . Many are never easily forgotten, they carry a great value of lessons with them, they hold a lot of insight, yet some lessons are still learnt more than once, it is a fool’s errand, thinking you can get different results from some idiotic idea you just pursued, but I dare say, idiocy is human and if we were not idiots … who or what would be?
Misadventures have values; we assess each venture and its lessons and note their merits according to the pain inflicted, whether emotional, physical or monetary and most often than not, the loss is always higher than the last, how that happens is a research I have sworn to undertake [I am hoping this will not be one of those]
Emotional misadventures take a long time to heal, emotions naturally have much deeper wounds, they are not the physical kind and their being tended to is a bit of a quagmire, they require the resources of patience and understanding, whatever that means.
Physical misadventures normally are very easy to heal, though the scars maybe visible, we believe as men that without a scar you were never a scout [or guide to be gender correct] whatever that means again
It is the monetary kind that is extremely frustrating, re-energizing the account is quite an affair, we all agree with this right? While the last two are quite obvious in their manner, it is the first one that does the most damage as it deals with your psyche, the others you can rush over but the emotional you need the skills of a mind enquirer, the physical and monetary you could just have a pint and call it a day
The emotional has very sinister routes; I would avoid this if I were you
While I have had the emotional mis-ads, they are not the ones I wish to bare here; I will address that last two for this is where the action is … where the adventure is
The –mis- just means it did not end well and other than the ending they were adventures like any other
Yeah… well I think I’ll have a double, make that two single doubles
